What do you do when you fall in love with a person who loves you as much as you do yet lack something that is of importance to you? Do you walk away? Do you stay and tolerate the flaws?
Meeting the ‘right’ partner is not something we can plan, it’s not upon us to plan how, when and where we meet that person we are willing to tolerate for the rest of our lives.
One of the greatest challenges human beings face is deciding whether they want to fall in love with someone as exactly as them or perhaps someone who just understands how they do things.
Would we really enjoy staying in love with the exact version of ourselves? Wouldn’t we get bored?
What do you feel should be right about your ‘right’ person? Everything?
If we are of the believe that we can never be perfect, when we seek that ‘right’ thing from our partners, we should also remember that we are also not perfect, therefore, there’s that ‘right’ that our partner seeks from us.
If one person can tolerate being with you despite getting that ‘right’ from you, would you return the favour?